Imagine a men’s therapy retreat inspired by Robert Bly’s “Iron John,” where participants embark on a transformative odyssey into the depths of their psyche.
Nestled in a tranquil, natural sanctuary, this retreat offers a sacred space for men to commune with their inner Wild Man, confront primordial fears, and liberate themselves from societal shackles. Through guided dialogues, reflective journaling, and experiential rites such as drumming, storytelling, and wilderness quests, attendees reconnect with their authentic essence. The retreat emphasizes brotherhood and shared experiences, cultivating a supportive tribe where men can openly discuss their struggles with self-worth, negative thoughts, and emotional scars. By drawing on the rich symbolism and themes of “Iron John,” participants gain profound insights into their personal growth and depart with a renewed sense of purpose and empowerment.
The Wild Man archetype embodies a primal, untamed force of masculine energy that dwells within every man. Bly’s writing delves into this archetype, weaving together Jungian psychology and ancient myths to unveil the transformative power of reconnecting with one’s inner wildness. The Wild Man is not a savage but a figure who has examined his wounds and embraced his authentic self, akin to a Zen priest or shaman. Inspired by Bly’s work, this retreat is vital because it provides a structured environment for men to explore these themes, break free from societal constraints, and foster personal growth. By engaging with the Wild Man archetype, participants can reclaim their masculinity, heal emotional wounds, and build a supportive community, ultimately leading to a more balanced and empowered life.
Holding the retreat in February, during the heart of winter, symbolizes a time of introspection and renewal, mirroring the natural world’s cycle of rest and preparation for new growth. The cold and stark environment encourages participants to turn inward, fostering a deeper connection with their inner Wild Man. The themes of keeping the Wild Man fire alive are central, emphasizing the importance of maintaining one’s inner vitality and passion even in the face of external challenges.
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These experiences aim to empower men to carry the warmth and wisdom of the Wild Man within them long after the retreat ends.
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If you feel called to embark on this journey, we invite you to join us and initiate with the Wild Man.
Embrace the opportunity to reconnect with your primal essence and forge a path toward healing and empowerment. Together, we will kindle the fire of transformation and brotherhood, paving the way for a future filled with personal growth and empowerment.
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What’s Included: 3-nights accommodations, all meals prepared by local chef, wood-fired sauna, meditation, yoga, and group therapeutic work led by an Experienced facilitator.
Nestled in the scenic woods of Hillsboro, NH, our venue is a serene yoga and living arts organic farm off the beaten path. Immerse yourself in the abundant gardens, take a dip in the tranquil pond, walk to a waterfall or embark on peaceful hikes along the trails. Find solace in the harmony of nature and inner reflection as you undergo your transformative retreat.
.Facilitator: Nick Iafrate, CMHC
Nicholas Iafrate is a Clinical Mental Health Counselor with a deep passion for reconnecting to nature and our intrinsic nature. He believes connecting to our “instinctual body” is vital for long-term health and vitality. With a background in physical fitness and hypnosis, Nicholas integrates depth-psychological approaches into his practice, offering a holistic and comprehensive approach to individual and group therapy. As a lifelong learner, he continually seeks to deepen his understanding and enhance his therapeutic methods.